These are the times of trouble predicted on this site, for love has waxed cold and they will Lie in wait to snare others by using the law in a manner not intended.
Some people use the law as a way to entrap their foes such as the woman who though she knew her lover would not hurt her ever wanted to make a situation where she could use the domestic violence law in order to gain control in courts.
My eldest son returned home recently citing a break in his relationship. He is a new father himself but it was done by deception. She did not tell him that she had stopped her contraception, nonetheless he loves his boy with all his heart.
I watched as she lured him into her clutches, even going so far as to lose weight, dress provocatively and send her own children away so that there was no hinderance to the trap. Then she worked him to the bone, in every way from child care to renovate the whole house and gardens and all along complaining that he was too slow or did not get it right. Then as soon as all the work was complete she kicked him out by involving the authorities and the very domestic violence order that you spoke of, while there is no evidence of violence on his part.
I found him this morning curled up sobbing profusely over his excommunication with his 2yo son. He is a broken man, broken by a woman who has broken two others in the past and continues her evil on our own family. She has organised teenagers to look after the grandson while she persues a career and another sucker to use and destroy.
I am not judgemental as there is only One Judge, I am simply relaying the tests we are being put up against with a hint of malice to show my discontent. Please forgive my speaking out of turn and know that my prayers are directed toward her, as there is always a light that shines in the darkness.